Showing posts with label Gravy. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Gravy. Show all posts

Wednesday, May 13, 2015

Sitti, Authentic Lebanese


                                                                                                                                Visited in February, 2015

Next door at Gravy Restaurant, ten minutes before their opening:  “Could you let us in? We’re really cold. It’s freezing out here.”

The Gravy manager barked, “You’ll have to wait until we are open.  Not before.”

“We don’t need a table right away, can’t we just wait inside the door where it is warm?”

“No.”

“Jerks,” I muttered irritably.

“Are you still hungry?” my wife asked, ignoring my grousing.

“Look at you, your fingers are turning blue. You’re shivering. What else is nearby?”

“Sitti is right next door.”

“We’ve already been there twice.  The service was slow, the bar tender worthless.”

“That was just your martini.  You enjoyed the food didn’t you?  Besides I don’t see anywhere else.”

“I suppose.” I replied without conviction or even enthusiasm.

Well before the evening rush, there were plenty of tables. A waiter appeared. “How are you this afternoon, sir? My name is Ross.” Before us stood a stolid, somewhat stocky, unruly haired young Celt, either totally unfazed or unable to read my dour expression. “Can I get you something to drink?”

“How am I?  Let me tell you. We’ve just been pushed out in the cold by Gravy, and we’re hungry. Vivian is there a wine you would like?” I so wanted this to be fun, but I was not optimistic.

“Yes, this looks good.” she replied cheerily and returned the wine list to Ross.

“And for you sir?”

Grumble, grumble. “Is this bartender any good? The last two times we’ve been here, the drinks were terrible.”

“How so?”

“I like martinis. On our first visit, after reminding the waiter twice, mine finally arrived, well after we had begun eating. The second time – it arrived with ice chips all over the surface, obviously shaken when I had asked for stirred. Water kills gin.”

Ross’s eyes twinkled; his body language read “Ignore gruff.” He paused, smiled disarmingly, and responded, “How do you like your martini?”

Good man. No fear, very professional.  I liked him, but I still barked, “Tanqueray gin, classic not dry, not shaken, stirred only a few times, and straight up, with an olive. And better bring me a jigger of olive juice for insurance.”

“Insurance?”

“Yes, insurance, if it’s poor, I can drown it down dirty.”

“I’ll bring the juice, but you won’t need it. You’ll be pleased. To be sure, I’ll make it myself.”

I warmed to this guy.  My wife and I had begun to thaw.

The drink arrived, I sipped. “Ross, thank you, this is good.” He waited a bit more, the restaurant was not yet crowded. Though he had no accent, I wondered out loud,”You’re not Scottish by any chance, are you?”

“Yes, as a matter of fact; my mother still lives there.”

And so started a conversation, first about Scotland, then his educational background, and finally the restaurant itself. He told us about the old time photos on the walls, “Many if not all are relatives of the owner, including his ‘Sitti’ which in Lebanese means ‘grandmother,’ the most important, and most beloved figure in any Lebanese family.”

We were in good hands. Ross’s martini calmed my inner dragon. “And so my new friend, what do you recommend?” Sitti organized its large, tri-panel menu by: Cold Mezze (salad, soup, sides); Entrees and Kabobs; and Hot Mezze and Pizzettes. “So many choices.”

The table pita arrived, fresh warm billowing pillows of goodness. Vivian and I relaxed enough to discuss Burning Coal’s production of Romeo and Juliet that we had just this afternoon. By the second martini, we were reminiscing about other productions. 

I truly enjoy lentil soup, one of the world’s great accomplishments, and Sitti’s ranked among the best, and also one of the most unusual.  Tonight’s included not only dark lentils but shredded grape leaves in a tangy vegetable broth. Slivers of a white root vegetable replaced the typical rice. Neither Vivian nor I could quite place the very fragrant spice. I’d go back just for the soup. Not ordering any appetizer, Vivian tried my soup and loved it.

Her shrimp kabob arrived off the spit, tangy with a delectable sauce.  “One of the best shrimp dishes I have ever had.” She exclaimed. I tasted the tails (yes the tails, I like them crispy and chewy).  The sauce was indeed good, not oily, and not overly spiced.  Her white rice, served with brown, fried bits of vermicelli and slivered almonds, was quite good.  

After all these good treats, my swarma was a bit of a disappointment.  Having lived in New Jersey with its large Middle Eastern population, the swarma I was used to was meat shaved from a large vertical-spit of overlapping cuts of meat.  What I received were pan fried, indistinguishable morsels of beef and lamb. My guess would be that the demand for swarma in Raleigh doesn’t warrant setting up a true swarma spit – nevertheless, this second best was just that.

Because it sounded so bizarre, I ordered garlic whips as my side.  Bizarre? Yes! As strange as Aladdin’s magic carpet and even more transportive. Wow, what a grand taste. Ross described it as a mixture of egg whites, garlic, salt and a small amount of oil.  It was far lighter than mayonnaise and spread wonderfully. Next time, especially if the lentil soup is not au jour, I’m ordering garlic whip as my appetizer.

In the hopes that we might someday bring our grandchildren, we checked out the children’s menu. It’s as much fun as the adult fare: mini tastes of hummus, baba ghanouj, and labneh; cheese pizzette with house-made mozzarella; chicken kabob; or peanut butter and jelly on pita. We laughed over the Lebanese interpretation of our traditional PB&J.

We shared the baklava for dessert: five pieces, sweet but not too rich; we could even taste the pistachios.  To Vivian’s disappointment, they did not serve Turkish Coffee.

On leaving we thanked Ross profusely, “Great time; you’ve made me want to come back.”

 

Sitti Authentic Lebanese is located at: 137 S. Wilmington Street, Raleigh, NC 27601.   919-239-4070.   http://www.sitti-raleigh.com/

Friday, February 20, 2015

Gravy Italian-American Kitchen

Think “restaurant”, and one generally thinks hospitality and congeniality – along with the enjoyment of dining. Not so at Gravy.

A few weeks back, Vivian and I saw Romeo and Juliet at Burning Coal Theater.  A wonderful and ingenious interpretation that required great skill, energy and understanding from the actors.  After the play, we were eager to discuss our views over a fine evening meal.
Earlier that morning we had reminisced about good times at Gravy, back when our friend Ray was the bartender.  His martinis were fantastic; the food was always home-cooked good.  What better place to continue our discussion of such a fine, modern interpretation of Shakespeare.
We arrived around 4:30; Gravy would open at 5:00.  It was a brisk cold day, but we made use of the interval to walk around downtown Raleigh.  But enough was enough. My wife hates the cold; her fingers, even in the best of gloves, still go blue so we headed back; at least we could stand in the entryway to keep out of the wind.

Ten minutes before five, the tables were empty, the waiters stood ready, and the receptionist was at her desk.  I motioned to her -- she courteously unlocked the door.  “Could we come in just to wait, we are both very, very cold.”  She asked her manager; he replied,” NO.”

Just freeze while we fiddle with the forks.

That disdainful manager snuffed out our joy of being back at Gravy.  We left and had our grand discussion, fine drinks and dinner at another restaurant.

Preparing to write this blog, I checked Gravy’s website for its address and telephone number.  Though hard to believe, it wasn’t there.  Not on the homepage, nor on any of its tabs, including the “about” page.  After reading and re-reading everything and fifteen minutes later, I finally found the “contact us” page, and there it was.  Not only was common sense marketing ignored, so also was an obvious courtesy to its patrons. Why make it so hard to find the obvious?

No page mentioned any obligation or interest in their guests; the site only touted the quality of the food (and it is good, quite good in fact), the credentials of the chef, and opportunities for catering and private parties. Arrogance? More likely ignorance.

To be a guest at an Italian’s table is a deep honor, and deep pleasure.  The hosts express their welcome by cooking their best dishes.  Italian dining is primarily social, what is served is a reflection of the hosts’ hospitality, and a chance to honor those who are present.  My Italian father-in-law, though a very busy corporate executive, spent time each week bringing people to his Sunday table; only after the inviting would his wife and he discuss what to serve.  The food itself was just an expression of regard for their friends.  When Italians invite you to diner, it is you they want to see; your happiness is foremost. Even a generation later, I still find this universally true.

Oh sorry, not at Gravy. 

Located at 135 S. Wilmington St, Raleigh, NC.  919-896-8513.